If your vps is properly configured and is still experiencing slowness and other issues, that to me is a clear indication that you really need to upgrade. If I were you, I'd keep track of the performance and resource usage over time so that I will be able to track the usage trends. That way, it'd be easier to predict just how much a vps will be able to take. If the trends show that your site/s will eventually outgrow your vps, then it's time to upgrade.
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