You can easily secure your MSSQL and MySQL by using firewall.
You may wish to enable remote access to your MS SQL server or MySQL server. But it is strongly recommended that this service be firewalled and only your IP address allowed for remote access to this port.
You can easily do this by the following method:-
HTML Code:
Start > Control Panel > Windows Firewall > Exceptions >
Add Port > Name = MSSQL | Port = 1443 | TCP > Change Scope > Custom list > Your IP address as listed at http://whatisimyip.com
Add Port > Name = MySQL | Port = 3306| TCP > Change Scope > Custom list > Your IP address as listed at http://whatismyip.com