In my opinion, providers should never take action without first contacting their customer on the issue. Under the US DMCA law, Bodhost is protected from liability for what customers use their servers for. As long as Bodhost takes immediate action to rectify the issue once they are made aware of if they are within the law. This means that they can legally, and without fear, give ample time (a couple days) for their customer to respond to and/or take action about the abuse report.
Me and my friend left our last provider for this very reason. Someone falsely accused us of spamming with the server and without contacting us at all, the company put a lan block on our server. That was enough for us to part ways with that provider permanently, thus losing a customer over what should have been a non-issue.
Glad to hear Bodhost is reasonable with these issues. As much as I love Bodhost already, if they ever suspended my account/server for an abuse report without first giving me a few days to respond to the issue, I would be immediatly closing my account. Really really glad to hear this should never happen though
Go Bodhost!